Almost seven months have slipped by since
my partner Paul and I returned to B.C. from our two-plus years in Honduras. That
should have been enough time to do all the things that I thought were important
when we were planning our return - enough time to see all the people I wanted
to see and jam in loads of family time.
Yet Oct. 25 approaches, the date of our
departure for our next Cuso International stint in Managua, Nicaragua. And I
never did tick off everything on that to-do list. There are numerous friends I
still haven’t seen. Walks I didn't go on. Favourite foods I didn't eat. The
time just got away from me, perhaps because of the constant shuffling from one
housesit to another as we attempted to remain unencumbered with household effects,
but mostly because seven months is long enough to feel like there’s no need to
rush, that there will be time enough to fit in everything.
What we did accomplish was seeing two
daughters through their weddings. We also gardened and pet-sat our way through
nine housesits, jetted off for a week in Florida (for one of the weddings), spent a great two months in
the Comox Valley hanging out with my two oldest children and their families,
and ate a lot of meals with my mother. We got in our first family Thanksgiving
in three years, and before we leave, will have celebrated Mom's 89th birthday with her as well.
One of the toughest aspects of our time at
home was finding work. I had been self-employed for three years leading up to
our departure for Honduras in January 2012, and I guess I hadn't thought
through just how long it might take to click back into my clients’ lives when I returned. I have renewed gratitude for PEERS Victoria,
which welcomed me back with both friendship and paid work, and Douglas Magazine,
which invited me back as a freelancer. Paul and I want to continue this
exciting new life doing work for Cuso in developing countries, but it’s clear
that we've got some work ahead to figure out the hard realities of the times in
between.
Unlike provinces like Ontario, B.C. has no
provisions for suspending medical coverage during extended absences out of the
country, so that threw us for a bit of a loop as well. There’s a three-month
waiting period and a $250 fee for a B.C. resident needing to get back on the
medical plan, and never mind that we were off doing good deeds in Honduras
during our time away. This next trip to Nicaragua is short – four months – so
we have decided to stay on the medical plan this time around to avoid another $250
penalty next spring, even though we’ll be paying $125 a month for nothing while
we’re gone. (Cuso provides us with medical coverage during our time in other
countries.)
Life without many worldly goods has been a
bit of a challenge, and we did end up buying a decent used car a couple of
months after we got back to B.C. I suspect we would have gone quite mad without
it. If your life is going to be about shuffling from one housesit to another,
trust me, you will want a car to carry the rather pathetic collection of backpacks,
totes and overstuffed plastic bags that now constitute everything you own. That
does mean, however, that we now have a car to deal with before we leave.
A surprising joy for me these past seven
months has been bike riding. I’ve loved cycling for a very long time now, but
two years of being away from it brought me back to a full-on obsession. When we
looked for a suitable car, one that would fit a bike was a priority, because I
wanted to take my beloved, ancient Trek everywhere I was going. I’ll really miss
cycling now that we’re off again, but am comforting myself with the thought
that I would have been hanging up the bike soon for the winter anyway.
My fave photo of Paul from our Honduras time, coming back from a village on a rainy, muddy day |
As for what we’re heading into in
Nicaragua, I am really looking forward to a return to living and working in
Central America. I've missed the people, the language, the amazing fruit and
the heat. I’ve missed the challenges of the work, which is so different than
anything I’ve gotten up to in Canada.
I will be working to resolve various business
problems and improve communications on behalf of the FederaciĆ³n Agropecuaria de Cooperativas de Mujeres Productoras del Campo de Nicaragua, a union of women’s
collectives set up by the Sandinistas back in the late 1990s. (Remember Daniel
Ortega? Well, he’s still the man in Nicaragua.) Paul will be working with the Associacion de Productores y Exportadores de Nicaragua to find new export markets and improve business practices for small producers,
With only four months to get our projects
done instead of a leisurely two years, we will have to be on the mark from the
day we arrive. But at least we are more or less fluent in Spanish this time
around, and have a better idea of the cultural barriers we will face in doing
our work. I've been faithfully reading nothing but Spanish novels since our
return, hoping it would keep my language skills strong during my absence. I
guess I’ll find out soon if the strategy worked.
Please visit our Cuso fundraising page here, and if you can, support us with a donation to a great organization. I
can’t say enough about the benefits of working with Cuso, both in terms of
putting your professional skills to work for some very good non-profits in the impoverished and challenged countries where Cuso works, and for personal development. I came home from
Honduras with a whole lot of skills I didn't have when I left and am a changed person, seeing with fresh eyes that which is good about
Canada but also determined not to return to the over-consumption and grousing about comparatively tiny problems that are so common in wealthy, privileged countries
like ours.
To my friends who I never did get to see,
catch you next spring. And stay tuned for my blogs from Nicaragua as the
adventure continues.