I’m still shaking my head after two and a
half enlightening hours yesterday talking with the local sex workers’
organization here in Managua, RedTraSex (Red de Trabajadores Sexuales). I’m not
sure whether to be delighted or shattered by how completely identical the
issues are for sex workers in Nicaragua as they are back home in Canada.
Had it not been for us talking in Spanish,
I could have easily been back in Victoria talking to my pals at Peers Victoria.
I fear my new friends at RedTraSex were a little discouraged to hear that
everything they identified as problems were also problems for sex workers in
Canada – stigma, judgment and misunderstanding at the top of that list.
The swag from my RedTraSex visit, including a key chain designed to fit a condom. Can't wait to wear my "I always use a condom" t-shirt. |
Case in point: The RedTraSex pamphlets, one
of which is about their campaign to reduce stigma facing sex workers when they
seek health care, and another whose title translates to “Sex work and
trafficking are not the same thing.” The book documenting the work of RedTraSex
- a network of sex workers in 14 Latin American countries - is titled “Ni Puta ni Prostituta: Somos Trabajadores
Sexuales.” (“Neither Whore Nor Prostitute: We Are Sex Workers.”)
You could produce those same three
publications in an English-language version and they would be totally relevant
to Canadian sex workers.
Discrimination against sex workers at
hospitals and clinics is a huge problem in Canada, to the point that many sex
workers refuse to disclose what they do for a living and thus don’t get the
attention they need for their specific line of work. Here in Nicaragua, almost
half of the sex workers that RedTraSex surveyed about health-care access reported
that they don’t disclose their line of work to medical professionals for fear
of being judged. More than a third of those who did disclose reported feeling
an instant and negative change in the doctor’s attitude toward them, and
repeated attempts to convince them to quit work.
The presumption that all sex workers are
working against their will and thus trafficked became a big political issue in
2014 in Nicaragua, and led to the passing of a new anti-trafficking law. Having
heard nothing about the new law until the first media reports came out, RedTraSex
had to launch a major advocacy campaign to push back against the government’s attempts
to treat consensual sex work and trafficking as the same thing.
How completely unsettling that that very
same year, it also became a big issue in Canada, the U.S. and Europe as the
anti-trafficking movement launched an aggressive campaign to convince the world
that sex work and trafficking are one and the same.
As for the stigmatized and offensive
language we use when we talk about sex workers, well, that’s one of the most
obvious signs that sex workers continue to occupy a sub-human position in the
minds of the general public, because while we no longer tolerate any number of
derogatory terms for all kinds of other populations, describing someone as a corporate
whore or prostituting their principles remains an acceptable way of condemning
someone as the lowest of the low.
One of the major struggles for Nicaraguan
sex workers is government apprehension of their children, the presumption being that if you’re a sex worker, you must be a bad mother. I can’t tell
you how many times I witnessed that same problem playing out for women seeking Peers
support.
Lordy, how is it that the plight of sex workers is the same all over
the world?
On the upside, I had one of the most
engaging conversations with some of the most passionate, powerful women I've
met since starting to work in Central America three years ago. Unpaid and
largely unsupported other than through a little money from Worldfund that covers
the rent for their office space and some promotional material, they are kicking
serious butt with their ferocious advocacy on behalf of sex workers.
Other similarities: The women complained of
constantly being put under the microscope of researchers, visitors, do-gooders
and others who ask deeply personal questions about how much they make, what
their spouses and children think of them being sex workers, whether they were
abused as children. They complained that any organization that comes with
offers of financial support or scholarships also attaches a non-negotiable
rider: That if the woman hopes to receive this support, she must “exit” sex
work. They complained of the double morality that allows so many of their
customers – preachers, police, politicians – to campaign against the rights of
sex workers while buying sexual services in their off-hours.
And they complained about the presumption
that all of them have tragic life stories that explain why they work in the
industry. The reality is that just like the Canadian sex workers I've met, they came to
the work for many reasons, including the fact that a single mother who is a sex
worker is able to work fewer hours for higher earnings than many other
Nicaraguans.
“If you ask any of us for the stories of
why we came to be sex workers, it’s different for every one of us,” says Maria
Elena Davila, the national co-ordinator for RedTraSex. “But we chose this work.”
RedTraSex has sex worker volunteers in
seven regions of Nicaragua, doing what they can with limited resources to reach
out to the 15,000 adult women working in the industry (RedTraSex currently
doesn’t work with male or trans sex workers). The volunteers work in an
informal style reminiscent of the 12-step movement to step up with personal support
for other sex workers at any time of the day or night that someone calls with a
problem. Condom distribution is a priority. Maria Elena says what the women
most appreciate is that the support comes from other sex workers, who can be
counted on not to judge them.
As is the case in Canada, sex work in
Nicaragua exists somewhere between legal and illegal, a shadowy space that
leaves workers without basic human rights and vulnerable to police harassment.
Maria Elena noted that when some Managua workers recently reported an underage
girl on the stroll – who turned out to have been put out there by her parents –
police responded by coming to the area and arresting everybody working there.
“Whenever that happens, you end up at the
police station for five or six hours, not making any money,” she says.
She recounted the extremely difficult
moment when she was preparing for a press conference on behalf of RedTraSex and
realized that seeing as she was poised to go public as a sex worker, she’d
first have to disclose that fact to her mom and her children. Here or in
Canada, telling your family the truth is one of the most painful memories in
any sex worker’s life, a stark reminder of just how stigmatized and judged this
line of work is.
I’m both honoured and aghast to have heard
in the stories of the strong women of RedTraSex virtually a word-for-word retelling
of the stories I've heard in Canada. I’m struggling to process the new knowledge that
two countries that are worlds apart in so many other ways both treat their sex
workers with the same contempt and disrespect, denying them the most basic of
rights as workers and as citizens. If ever I needed one more argument to confirm
my opinion that this issue is one of the most important human-rights battles of
this era, yesterday's conversation was it.